Joelle: We just left a little early because I was getting tired and didn't want to try too hard to stay awake while driving.
Grandmom: Well you worked so hard doing all that work. I don't ever want you to do that again.
Joelle: It's really not a problem. We do it all the time at home.
Grandmom: But those bags of salt are just too heavy for you. You shouldn't be lifting those. And you especially shouldn't be lifting two at a time; that's much to heavy for a girl!
Joelle: It's fine Grandmom.
Grandmom: I'm just saying, I have a dolly that I can get down the stairs with one bag at a time and that works much better than having you and your brother carrying them all the way downstairs.